Available at:

Asian Art Archive
(zines)
11/F Hollywood Centre, Hong Kong

Ném
(game & zines)
18/1 Ngô Thời Nhiệm, Võ Thị Sáu, Q3

Rawberry Cakes (game & zines)
52 Đỗ Quang, Thảo Điền, Q2

Reading Cabin (zines)
18A/33 Nguyễn Thị Minh Khai, Q1

Mori (game & zines)
19 Hồ Tùng Mậu, TP Vinh



TỪ TỪ DIALOGUE


By asking deeper questions, each dialogue is a chance to expand understanding, love, and joy.


Từ Từ Dialogue was created alongside our community from 2020 to 2023, using participatory research and play. It is a tool to foster conditions for intimacy in the everyday life.


WHAT'S INSIDE

• 100 Question Cards with hand-drawn graphics
• 5 Power Cards to create a love-based conversation
• 1 Introduction Booklet


TESTIMONIALS




You can experience / buy Dialogue Cards offline from our friends:

Hồ Chí Minh:

Ném
18/1 Ngô Thời Nhiệm, Võ Thị Sáu, District 3

Rawberry Cakes
52 Đỗ Quang, Thảo Điền, District 2

Vinh City:

Mori
19 Hồ Tùnh Mậu, Vinh







WHAT PEOPLE SAY ABOUT TRÒ CHUYỆN CARDS






















    Making A Fuss ✧ ORDER HERE ✧
      Historically, the phrase "stop making a fuss" is used against the marginalized as a technology to put them in line. It is effectively saying, "You are wrong. Please stop creating drama on unnecessary things." But who decides what is wrong and right , what is un/necessary?

      In this booklet, you will find:

    • A discourse on love & making a fuss:
    • How does the concept of "making a fuss" relate to love?
    • How to “make a fuss” in your own community.
    • The use of projecation to create gatherings on fusses.
    • Stories by community contributors.

    • 70 pages
    • an interactive booklet
    • communally created
    • multiple authors
    • for personal use and sharing circles


    Order it here.

    More information of “Making A Fuss” gathering
























        Whose story deserves to be told, remembered, and empathized with? Who is silenced? And who gets to decide?

        Daring To Archive encourages us to offer a counter-narrative to the dominant status quo regardless of how “small” our voices are (with examples and some resources).



             






















        What shocked us the most when we are working with communities who historically have been underserved and marginalized is (1) how kind these people are, and (2) how unkindly they allow the world to treat them. They don’t know that they deserve to be treated kindly in return. It is as if one-sided empathy and forgiveness are engineered into the abused to survive the abusive treatment. Overjustification, apologies, and forgiveness are tools that some people have been taught to do relentlessly at the expense of their own sanity for the comfort of the dominant one.


        Against popular notions of love, this booklet urges us to…

        STOP

        • blaming ourself for a moment
        • forgiving the other person
        • justifying for their misdeeds
        • spiritual bypassing our pains

        START

        • admitting that we were hurt
        • validating our own reality
        • placing accountability where it’s due
        • truth-speaking about our experiences

        Learning about Narcissism, by questioning who benefits from how we currently understand "love", I hope "love" will then widen to include the marginalized.



        What’s inside:
        • A playbook on building immunity against abuse
        • Understand gaslighting
        • 10 survival tactics
        • Questions to spot abuse
        • Resources on narcissism
        • The biggest point about surviving abuse